It is rightly said that ‘old is gold’ this
said almost lead of security because gold is to be saved ever, has the old
people feelings of insecurity manifolds as the life span runs to the end. So
the for most need of old people insecurity which springs in the environment of
harmony.
Old
should be given peace and solace as a reward of their patents and vigour that they
had consumed in their youth to make the wheel of time run in order to set the
indigenous history.
The
old should be offered such a mallow and lovely sweetness that they may not feel
any type of guilt being an old person.
The
old people are just like infinite that needs proper care and a schedule diet so
they should be given a healthful routine to cope with the old age.
It
is observed that in our life style the old people are elephant deserted in a
room with some necessity this should be uprooted to make them active and
dynamic member of society to act their proper role with heroic style.
The
old people are the origin of wit and wisdom so they must be treated as the
terrace of experience to have the gems of practice.
It
s our duty to care for old people. They need care, attention and love. Obedience
is a very simple way of showing gratitude for the benefits that they provide to
the young ones. So be obedient to your elders.
This
is not good to use word old for old peoples because they are our elders and
they have to be respected, when a child born he cannot eat food, cannot changes
his clothes by himself because he need cares so as the same case with old
people, they behave same like children they need care, love and they need a
constant companion who look after them every time.
Old people want to get more care more
attention, because they feel lonely. They need healthy food because they
gradually become weak as an age factor.
Old people are like us, they become sensitive
when they have to stay all the time at home. Similarly they also want to meet
their friends and want some outside walk like us. They also want that all
family members came and talk with them. They also need neat and clean
atmosphere.
They need happiness and prosperity, rarely do they
wish for more money.
Most
important thing is to give them respect and affection. Spend time with them,
show your attention as well. Old peoples also need their relation, love and
care.
The
captain, when entering a strange port, trusts to pilot to guide his ship
safely. Similarly old people are our pilots. We sail in strange waters and our
safety depends on submission to the directions of those who are more
experienced.
They
require something more than money. They require sympathy, moral support, which
money cannot buy. To give these things, requires a large heart, a broader mind,
and more personal sacrifice.
During
period of their extreme stresses and strain, when life is hard and the nervous
system becomes taut, humor can relieve much of the tension, it not only takes
the tension out of situations, but it also brings mirth and laughter.
Their
diet should be modified accordingly such that it remains nutritious and
balanced.
Now
these days there are trend of old homes, where old people lives lonely without
their child. The concept of old houses starts from the Europe where people have
no time for their old parents so they push them to old houses and never meet
again and then their parents wait for them till their death but in Asian
countries like Pakistan there is a tradition that all family members live
together we own our parents and grandparents.
Especially
in villages people respect their parents and feel proud to live with them. But
now people who lives in cities and want to become more modern just as European
people. They bring their parents to old houses.
But
on the other hand old people never want to live in old houses because as they
want more love and affection from their child but they never get it in old
houses because once their children bring them to old house they leave them and
never came back. According to our Islamic ideology our old parents are our
assets. We can earn paradise by serving them.
The old must be accompanied with all the dooms and ducks of life with due respect and honor, there is no need of old houses in our religion.
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